Relationships from the outside looking in.

'We're going out ' (she smiles a huge grin)

' We had our first kiss' (she blushes uncontrollably)

' we had our first fight' ( dead look in his eyes)

'wat was it about?' ' not calling her last night' 'so' ' she thinks Im ignoring her' 'when was the last time you called her ?' ' yesterday at 8:25' ' so you called her right ?' ' yeh but i didnt call to say good night'

'ok! (damn wat a loser)'

What is it that makes something that was created as a positive psychological tool, into someting that eventually becomes a form of mental or psychological torture. When the concept of a relationship was created, I do believe it was created as a supportive mechanism for the participants to grow as individuals with the reinforcement they get from their partners. So why is it that it has mutated into something that drains you both mentally and emotionally? Do you have to speak with each other every hour on the hour to reassure yourself that the other person still exists ? doesnt that make you a dependant rather than an individual ? Is that what you wwant to be ? A parasite who cannot survive without the host? I would rather think you would want to be a symbiotic organism who gives and takes in equal measure. Where neither is drained with the mind games but rather flourshes in their individuality with support from your partner. But then again what do I know ;)